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V(e)ntage of an aspiring woman and wife. The mother in me speaks on Eesa's blog. The activist, feminist and student in me speaks at Unshackled. This is the blog where I put all the different facets of my life together; to realize and appreciate God, Marriage, Relationships, Love and Life.

Monday, February 06, 2006

Karachi...

Park Towers, Aashiana, Walk Eaze, Arizona Grill, Zen's, Nandos, Pizza hut, Papa johns, Espresso, Costa, Tariq road, zainab market, Bonfire at the Beach (aah!), the fountain, grandparents, in-laws, friends, cousins... aah the bliss!

I love karachi. As a city, its marvellous. It's a shopper's haven. A photographers kaleidoscope. A granddaughter's journey towards weaving together memories thread by thread -- reviving my childhood.

As i spend endless slepless nights in cozy blankets being hysterical with cousins, i wish this time could last and last. I'm re-living my pre-marital days. Sleeping in my mums bed (she gave me a short 4 day visit from india this past weekend). Being pampered by grandmas. Being nagged at for not eating well or not sleeping enough - something i HATED back then. Today this nagging reminds me of the presence of people who care about me.

One thing that really bothers me here though, is the oppression of women. At every level. I love the way the new generation is springing out of the claws of this oppression. Although the new generation in poorer areas is still marred by this oppression.

I cant help but notice the 22 million rupee fountain which could have easily fed 22 thousand homes - if not more for a month! If i travel even 2 kms out of defense, i cant help but notice the slums and the shabbily built homes. I see men riding bicycles and mercedes side by side on the same road. The amount i spent in one day is the equivalent of two of my grandma's maid's entire month's worth of salary. Who knows where the funds from the President's Relief fund actually went to.

The society needs a change from a more basic level. Every other house seems to be a school. Lacking the properoverall requirements of an individual, schools seem to be lading the child's mind with just textbooks - giving days off for cricket matches and calling them back on weekends to cover on missed time. Dare i mention the concept of family time.

I'm enjoying myself soo much - yet so much bothers me! *grr*

4 Comments:

  • At 9:09 PM, Blogger Unknown said…

    sheeeeshaaaaaa
    come baaaaaaaaack.... i miss u too much.. i know.. im being selfish....... but bleh.. its ur fault that i love you!
    missin u tons
    aasiya

     
  • At 5:05 AM, Blogger Kat said…

    but we are evolving....nothing changes over night! sigh!

     
  • At 11:10 AM, Blogger jammie said…

    where are you?? you said toud get in touch when you got time!!

    evolving- the Rs 22m fountain- the homes- the schools-no comments.
    i can say for myself and the people i know- we are doing our best- basic is education adn thr realization of the needs of peoeple- women are TRYING to break out- dont compare us to where youre coming from- compare us to where we are coming from-

    itsd a long haul but for those of us here- these are good things happening :)

    are you still here?

     
  • At 10:37 PM, Blogger Shezalldat said…

    jammie.. i agree women have broken out over the last 10 yrs or so... however.. considering that pak is a muslim country and counting the liberation and rights islamgrants for women, pakistan is way off mark! im not comparing pak to canada, im comparing it to a muslim society.

     

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