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V(e)ntage of an aspiring woman and wife. The mother in me speaks on Eesa's blog. The activist, feminist and student in me speaks at Unshackled. This is the blog where I put all the different facets of my life together; to realize and appreciate God, Marriage, Relationships, Love and Life.

Monday, June 12, 2006

Home alone..

Imo0o left for Montreal last night. It's a weird, hollow feeling. I'm staying at our place with Eesa and it feels .. lonely. Imo did it for three months while Eesie and I were in pak/india, God only knows how he did it. It's crazy. His flight hadn't left and we'd already exchanged 200 txt msgs - and then we realized that we should just talk instead considering I have unlimited minutes and he has weekends free. But then we resorted back to txting... its more fun!

We spent the weekend at his parents place and sneaked in plenty of dates at random hours of the day and..err.. night! My fave was the one yest afternoon (just hours before his flight) with tiramisu and mocha icecream on waffles at a nice bistro/icecream inn while eesa was at his grandparents place. Here's a convo from this date:

Sheza: *holding her tummy* Let's go home, I need to pee
Imran: Let's get the bill first
Sheza: What an oxymoronic date... here I am discussing my bladder issues! I'm definitely impressing you there!
Imran: Shez, we've been married for almost four years!
Shez: Whooaa! Hang on there! You might be that old, I'm not! *grins*
Imran: *gives me the serious look* Seriously, it'd be four years in december!
Shez: *shocked* wooow! you're right! and oh my God! we have a two year old son!!
Imran: *laughing* Yup! time flies!
Shez: Oh my God! We'd celebrate our ten yr anniversary even before we hit the big 30!

*double grins for that one!*

I dont know why but I'm feeling scared of the big 30 already and I still have eons to go before I actually hit it!

Anyway, Imo left last night right after his uncle arrived from Sweden. He's got three daughters and he's the only uncle I hadnt met in the family. Knowing the Gaya (..and Merchant!!) family, I forecast three VERY interesting weeks ahead.

I finally met up with Sadia on Sat eve. We had a 2 hour long poolside discussion at my in-laws on everything. From pre-marital prep talk to sofas (microfibre vs leather) to towels to clothes to vacations.. it was nice and refresshing. She's leaving to get married in pak in 16 days! and then she's moving to new york! Ah... good riddance to bad rubbish! LOL! just kidding! I can just picture her giving me THE glare! I'll miss u, u dork!

Here's my dillemma from the weekend. I had an asgmt that was due today. I had done it and misplaced it somewhere at my inlaws. In between transferring files and cleaning up Rizzi's computer, I deleted the file. So i had no hard or soft copy. I stayed up last night to do it again. And then guess what!!! This morning I was packing up eesa's diaper bag to go to maryam's place and found it there!! I must have kept it in there on the way back from my inlaws place last weekend! But dayam! I must have chked in there atleast thrice! And then to top it off, M called this mornign to say she's dropped out of the program so KC and i had to catch up with her part of the asgmt!!

I'm regretting not having gone to mtl with him. I'm really crazy abt staying at hotels and boy do i love flying and airplanes. Imz usually drives slow on the highway when we're crossing the airport on the 401 just so i could watch a plane go by. And right now he's staying at hilton hotel... ah! airplanes EVERYWHERE!!!

Erm yea, so now the next highlight of my life during imo's absence is our girls get together on wed morn with Maryam and Atikah. and then Imo's return in the evening on wed. Ideas for a warm welcome anyone? ;)

2 Comments:

  • At 4:28 AM, Blogger jammie said…

    i couldnt stop being wowed by the difference here- whereas you will celebrate your 10th anniversary by the time youre 30- i will celebrate my 1st :) the choices we make in life are are just too much sometimes!!!

     
  • At 12:10 PM, Blogger Shezalldat said…

    u might be celebrating ur first at 30, but you knew what u wanted and where u were headed within this one yr, if not before. i think its taken me four yrs to accomplish what uve done in one;) keep it up!

     

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