Independence

I was talking to someone a couple of days ago about when is a good age for marriage. She got married at 27 and has a very levelled outlook on everything and I'm really proud of her for it. We were discussing what age is a good age and somewhere in there we agreed that 18 is too pliable, 23-24 smack in the middle of discovering independence and 26/27 perfectly independent.

I don't mind compromising to make others happy. But I hate being taken advantage of.

I have so many things I want to yell out. So many things I want to say. Out of respect I have kept it zipped, but I'm thoroughly running out of patience. I feel like im standing there with arrows being shot at me from all ends. I wish I could stand up for myself at moments like these. But I can't. If i KNOW, something i'm going to say is going to hurt someone, I can't spit out those horrible and mean words. However, ppl keep going on taking advantage of it. (i would have used a four letter word that starts with a P here, but my readers are quiet sensitive abt that word!!). Generally, I'm not the pliable type but with a certain group of ppl, out of respect, i do become quiet pliable. I don't mind pleasing others. But when pleasing turns into expectation, i have alot of beef waiting to be stewed! *fumes*

I'm fuming again, so I'll sign out before I punch out someone's forehead! Thank you blogspot for letting me fume!!